Author: Laura Mansfield Publisher: Wordcrafts Press ISBN: 9781948679466 Category : Fiction Languages : en Pages : 158
Book Description
Mike Pazzo was my husband. He was also a narcissist. Every conversation with Mike was a fight. I couldn't hold my own, much less win those fights. Why did every conversation have to be won or lost? Damn, it was exhausting. He beat me down with his barrage of caustic words and his superior argumentative techniques. And he loved it. Sometimes I'd fall at his feet, prostrate in absolute abject defeat just to get him to stop yelling at me. I'd sit back on my heels and bow to him, which he loathed. I'm not sure whether he was disgusted or infuriated. I'm not even sure whether I was being sarcastic or authentic in my show of submission. In those moments he would ball up his fists in silent fury--and walk away. That is when I began to wonder when he would hit me. When--not If. It was only a matter of time before his abuse became physical. He was a violent man on the inside. In that moment, I knew there was no turning back. I was the trapped fox that gnaws off its own foot to escape. Freedom at all costs. Even if you leave part of yourself behind.
Author: Mona Diggins Publisher: Bco Publishing ISBN: 9781087944104 Category : Family & Relationships Languages : en Pages : 184
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Are you constantly feeling undermined and exploited in your relationship? If so, keep reading... Am I the one who's overreacting? If you ask yourself this question on a regular basis, you aren't alone -- and you aren't going crazy... Although all marriages have their ups and down, there is nothing normal about feeling belittled and unwanted by your partner most of the time. You may already be realizing there is something abnormal going on. Maybe you've noticed your partner constantly guilts and shames you into certain behaviors or seen how different your friends' marriages are. Although 1 in 200 people have narcissistic personality disorder, it is rarely talked about and relatively unknown as a risk in relationships. Narcissists are master manipulators and can deftly weave a web of lies and misdirections so confusing you begin to question everything. Even yourself. Life with a manipulative spouse might feel impossible to navigate. You're constantly walking on eggshells not to upset them, and you can never seem to please them. This is not your fault. Millions of people have gone through similar experiences and found hope in the validation of their experiences, and you can too. In Narcissistic Wife, you will discover: ● The 3 types of narcissists and how to identify whether they are overt or covert manipulators ● Personal stories from relationship survivors that paint a picture of what life with a narcissistic spouse really looks like ● Why characterizing your partner's tactics can empower you to take back control by targeting specific ways they treat you ● 9 signs of a narcissistic spouse and what to do if you see them in your own relationship ● In-depth explanations of the different ways narcissists attempt to control and dominate others ● Why it is so easy to fall under the spell of a person who cares only about themselves ● Direct advice on how to heal and recover from a toxic relationship from people who have escaped the influence of a manipulative spouse themselves And much more. They say love isn't easy -- but that doesn't mean you should accept suffering for the sake of protecting a relationship. It's time to show yourself love and compassion and free yourself from the suffocating grip of a narcissistic partner. Trust your instincts and start on the journey to feeling free and whole once more.
Author: Ryan Frederick Publisher: Baker Books ISBN: 1493412779 Category : Religion Languages : en Pages : 221
Book Description
Ryan and Selena Frederick were newlyweds when they landed in Switzerland to pursue Selena's dream of training horses. Neither of them knew at the time that Ryan was living out a death sentence brought on by a worsening genetic heart defect. Soon it became clear he needed major surgery that could either save his life--or result in his death on the operating table. The young couple prepared for the worst. When Ryan survived, they both realized that they still had a future together. But the near loss changed the way they saw all that would lie ahead. They would live and love fiercely, fighting for each other and for a Christ-centered marriage, every step of the way. Fierce Marriage is their story, but more than that, it is a call for married couples to put God first in their relationship, to measure everything they do and say to each other against what Christ did for them, and to see marriage not just as a relationship they should try to keep healthy but also as one worth fighting for in every situation. With the gospel as their foundation, Ryan and Selena offer hope and practical help for common struggles in marriage, including communication problems, sexual frustration, financial stress, family tension, screen-time disconnection, and unrealistic expectations.
Author: Dave Willis Publisher: XO Publishing ISBN: Category : Family & Relationships Languages : en Pages : 197
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"Now the man and his wife were both naked, but they felt no shame." (Genesis 2:25) Imagine a marriage with complete intimacy, vulnerability, transparency and trust. Imagine a marriage rooted in faith, friendship and mutual fulfillment. Imagine a marriage with amazing sex, but where great sex is only the icing on the cake. This might all sound too good to be true, but it's actually what God designed marriage to be, and He doesn't want you settling for anything less. Having a "Naked Marriage' is about much more than just nakedness in the bedroom (although that's part of the fun). It means being naked emotionally and spiritually as well as physically. It also means undressing all the misconceptions our culture has used to cover God's original, beautiful design for marriage and rediscovering all marriage can be. You and your spouse can have a thriving, Naked Marriage with a lifetime of love and laughter together. This book will show you how. About the Authors: Dave and Ashley Willis have become some of America's most trusted teachers on marriage. Their books, blogs, videos and speaking events reach millions of couples worldwide. They are part of the team at XO Marriage and MarriageToday, which is the largest marriage-focused ministry in the USA. Dave and Ashley have four young sons and live near Dallas, TX.
Author: Ramani Durvasula, Ph.D. Publisher: Post Hill Press ISBN: 1618688774 Category : Family & Relationships Languages : en Pages : 271
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Narcissism is a modern epidemic, and it’s spreading rapidly. But how do you know if you are in a relationship with one—and, what can you do about it? We live in a world of romance and rescue, where many believe love will conquer all, and that the more we endure unacceptable behavior, the more likely that we can “fix” our relationships. It doesn’t always work that way—despite what the fairy tales tell us. There are a few hard facts about pathological narcissism that most people don’t know and most psychologists will never tell you. Should I Stay or Should I Go? uses checklists, clinical wisdom, and real stories from real people to prepare you for the real terrain of pathological narcissism. It raises the red flags to watch for and provides a realistic roadmap for difficult situations to help you reclaim yourself, find healing, and live an authentic and empowered life. Whether you stay. Or go.
Author: Catenya McHenry Publisher: Createspace Independent Publishing Platform ISBN: 9781981641864 Category : Divorce Languages : en Pages : 224
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She stayed in an empty, narcissistic relationship five years too long, thinking she was committed to not leaving. She was afraid of feeling like a failure in the marriage, to her children, and to herself if she didn't at least try to fight for its resolution. Eventually, the fight wasn't worth it because he'd blame her anyway... for everything. Author Catenya McHenry is a fighter in every aspect of her life. Surviving a narcissistic relationship, she penned the soul-crushing journey in Married to A Narcissist: Enduring the Struggle and Finding You Again. If you feel abused, alone, overshadowed, beat down and sometimes outside of yourself because of a narcissist partner, this book will help you distance yourself from the abuse, give you hope, and help you love yourself and find yourself again. Available now on Amazon and FindingYouAgain.org.
Author: Laura Doyle Publisher: BenBella Books, Inc. ISBN: 1944648607 Category : Family & Relationships Languages : en Pages : 280
Book Description
Can a wife single-handedly bring a boring or broken marriage back to life? This improved and expanded edition of Laura Doyle's acclaimed First, Kill All the Marriage Counselors features real-life success stories from empowered wives who have done just that—and provides a step-by-step guide to revitalizing your own marriage. Laura Doyle's marriage was in trouble, and couples counseling wasn't helping. On the brink of divorce, she decided to talk to women who'd been happily married for over a decade, and their advice stunned her. From it, she distilled Six Intimacy Skills—woman-centric practices that ended her overwhelm and resentment, restoring the playfulness and passion in her marriage. Now an internationally-recognized relationship coach, Doyle has shared her secrets with women around the globe, saving thousands of marriages with her fresh, revolutionary approach. Practical and counter-intuitive, the Six Intimacy Skills are about focusing on your own desires and transforming your own life—not bending over backwards to transform your husband. Incorporating these skills will empower you to: Attract his attention like a magnet when you relax more and do less Receive affection not because you told him to make more of an effort, but because he naturally seeks you out Feel more like yourself—and like yourself more If you've been trying to "fix" your relationship and it's not working, maybe the problem was never you, or your husband, or even the two of you as a couple. Maybe the problem is that nobody ever taught you the skills you need to foster respect, tenderness, and consideration. With humor and heart, The Empowered Wife shows you how to improve your relationship in ways you hadn't thought possible. You'll join a worldwide community of over 150,000 empowered wives who finally have the marriages they dreamed of when they said "I do."
Author: Theresa J. Covert Publisher: GD Publishing Limited ISBN: 9781914103490 Category : Self-Help Languages : en Pages : 146
Book Description
Still struggling from the effects of a narcissistic or psychopathically abusive relationship? Many people do and sadly there is very little information available to be found online or in the written research, or with counsellors and therapists that can help. Narcissistic Victim Syndrome is not officially recognised, nor is it widely even known. Even when it is accepted, recognised and known not many people seem to know what to DO ABOUT IT to heal it... The fact is being in a relationship with a narcissist over a long period of time has long lasting traumatic effects that can be extremely catastrophic to the person suffering them. DO THE FOLLOWING SYMPTOMS SOUND FAMILIAR? - Ruined self confidence - Doubting yourself and your sanity - Mood swings - Sleeplessness - Extreme weight loss or weight gain - Uncharacteristic jealousy/ insecurity - Feeling like you don't know the difference between right and wrong The list goes on.... Covert Narcissists dangle their vulnerability in front of you as bait, just waiting for your good nurturing mothering/fathering instincts to kick in and rescue the poor little lost child they are presenting to you. But beneath the mask of a shy, vulnerable and "good person" something far more sinister lurks. And this what makes covert narcissism so damaging and dangerous: the nature of the disorder is such that you are brainwashed into thinking you are dealing with a human being with a morality, perhaps even a "pillar of the community". OFT REPEATED MYTHS OF THE INTERNET ABOUT NARCISSISTS: You are Told Narcissists are always brash, loud, assertive, flashy and Confident. The problem is Coverts are quiet, insecure and passive. You are Told Narcissists will never apologise for things they do. The problem is Coverts can learn that a quick and TOTAL apology is a really slick way of getting their target to "go back to sleep" if it looks like they are waking up. WHAT YOU NEED NOW: - Someone who has been through the same experiences you have and understands them from the inside. -Someone who has the knowledge, training, education and experience working on himself and others to lead you through the emotional sh*tstorm that breaking with a narcissist can create.
Author: Brad Micklin Publisher: ISBN: Category : Languages : en Pages : 112
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FINALLY - AN HONEST APPROACH TO DIVORCING A NARCISSIST Living with a narcissist can be awful. Divorcing one is a nightmare. They're always right, they want everything their way and they leave little room for compromise. How to Survive and Thrive When Divorcing a Narcissist offers solid advice on creating and sticking to a strategy so that you can get what you need and want from the divorce. Inside you'll discover: How to prepare yourself for the battle. How to be ready for the inevitable court fight. Insider child custody tips and tricks. What to expect during and after the divorce. And much more! This book lays out the divorce process in New Jersey and explains the five things to know when divorcing a narcissist. It's a must-read for anyone who is leaving a narcissistic spouse who shows even some of the symptoms of being a narcissist.
Author: Caroline Foster Publisher: ISBN: Category : Languages : en Pages : 219
Book Description
If you are a man dealing with a narcissistic woman, this book is for you. Additionally, if you are not sure whether your wife or girlfriend is narcissistic, you will find out. Reading this book, you will learn: How to recognize a narcissistic woman before engaging a relationship with her. How to recognize a narcissistic wife, then divorcing and co-parenting. How to protect your children from parental alienation. How to recognize financial abuse and recover from it. How to heal yourself from codependency and narcissistic abuse syndrome. How to change your old toxic pattern of relationships and learn to appreciate healthy, empathetic, rational adult women. It could be extremely difficult for men to consciously recognize and admit when a woman has abused them. This is just how culture has raised us, as admitting abuse has become shameful for men. Men have a lack of understanding, a lack of resources, they are more shameful to admit that they are being abused by a woman, and it does not help that mental health industry is hyper feminized. Before this book was published, male victims of narcissistic women were not considered the way they deserved to be, and female narcissists were not represented the way they should be. If you are an empathetic man, you have a harder time because of the way our society is, but this book will finally help you to get rid of your toxic relationship and start healing from narcissistic abuse. If you need to start changing your life, don't miss this book!
Author: Laura Mansfield
Author: Mona Diggins
Author: Ryan Frederick
Author: Dave Willis
Author: Ramani Durvasula, Ph.D.
Author: Catenya McHenry
Author: Laura Doyle
Author: Theresa J. Covert
Author: Brad Micklin
Author: Caroline Foster