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Author: Juan Martin Sanchez Publisher: Xlibris Corporation ISBN: 1503548309 Category : Fiction Languages : en Pages : 199
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A depiction of both love in its budding period and the eternal search for love that cuts across time and distance. A young man suffers his first pangs of romantic emotion, entangling himself in virtual relationships that lead him only to the starting point. Tom wants to possess that which can't be possessed; he yearns for love, but he's not ready for it. But he's on his way to finding the only thing worth living and dying for: love.
Author: Dan Slater Publisher: Penguin ISBN: 1101608250 Category : Psychology Languages : en Pages : 282
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“If online dating can blunt the emotional pain of separation, if adults can afford to be increasingly demanding about what they want from a relationship, the effect of online dating seems positive. But what if it’s also the case that the prospect of finding an ever more compatible mate with the click of a mouse means a future of relationship instability, a paradox of choice that keeps us chasing the illusive bunny around the dating track?” It’s the mother of all search problems: how to find a spouse, a mate, a date. The escalating marriage age and declining marriage rate mean we’re spending a greater portion of our lives unattached, searching for love well into our thirties and forties. It’s no wonder that a third of America’s 90 million singles are turning to dating Web sites. Once considered the realm of the lonely and desperate, sites like eHarmony, Match, OkCupid, and Plenty of Fish have been embraced by pretty much every demographic. Thanks to the increasingly efficient algorithms that power these sites, dating has been transformed from a daunting transaction based on scarcity to one in which the possibilities are almost endless. Now anyone—young, old, straight, gay, and even married—can search for exactly what they want, connect with more people, and get more information about those people than ever before. As journalist Dan Slater shows, online dating is changing society in more profound ways than we imagine. He explores how these new technologies, by altering our perception of what’s possible, are reconditioning our feelings about commitment and challenging the traditional paradigm of adult life. Like the sexual revolution of the 1960s and ’70s, the digital revolution is forcing us to ask new questions about what constitutes “normal”: Why should we settle for someone who falls short of our expectations if there are thousands of other options just a click away? Can commitment thrive in a world of unlimited choice? Can chemistry really be quantified by math geeks? As one of Slater’s subjects wonders, “What’s the etiquette here?” Blending history, psychology, and interviews with site creators and users, Slater takes readers behind the scenes of a fascinating business. Dating sites capitalize on our quest for love, but how do their creators’ ideas about profits, morality, and the nature of desire shape the virtual worlds they’ve created for us? Should we trust an industry whose revenue model benefits from our avoiding monogamy? Documenting the untold story of the online-dating industry’s rise from ignominy to ubiquity—beginning with its early days as “computer dating” at Harvard in 1965—Slater offers a lively, entertaining, and thought provoking account of how we have, for better and worse, embraced technology in the most intimate aspect of our lives.
Author: Juan Martin Sanchez Publisher: Xlibris Corporation ISBN: 1503548309 Category : Fiction Languages : en Pages : 199
Book Description
A depiction of both love in its budding period and the eternal search for love that cuts across time and distance. A young man suffers his first pangs of romantic emotion, entangling himself in virtual relationships that lead him only to the starting point. Tom wants to possess that which can't be possessed; he yearns for love, but he's not ready for it. But he's on his way to finding the only thing worth living and dying for: love.
Author: Gabriel García Márquez Publisher: Vintage ISBN: 1101911115 Category : Fiction Languages : en Pages : 370
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INTERNATIONAL BESTSELLER • "A love story of astonishing power" (Newsweek), the acclaimed modern literary classic by the beloved Nobel Prize-winning author. In their youth, Florentino Ariza and Fermina Daza fall passionately in love. When Fermina eventually chooses to marry a wealthy, well-born doctor, Florentino is devastated, but he is a romantic. As he rises in his business career he whiles away the years in 622 affairs--yet he reserves his heart for Fermina. Her husband dies at last, and Florentino purposefully attends the funeral. Fifty years, nine months, and four days after he first declared his love for Fermina, he will do so again.
Author: Francoise Barret-Ducrocq Publisher: Penguin ISBN: 0140173269 Category : History Languages : en Pages : 241
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Using firsthand documents uncovered in the archives of a London foundling hospital, Barret-Ducrocq offers a marvelously acute census of Victorian sexual and moral attitudes.
Author: Aziz Ansari Publisher: Penguin ISBN: 0143109251 Category : Humor Languages : en Pages : 290
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The #1 New York Times Bestseller “An engaging look at the often head-scratching, frequently infuriating mating behaviors that shape our love lives.” —Refinery 29 A hilarious, thoughtful, and in-depth exploration of the pleasures and perils of modern romance from Aziz Ansari, the star of Master of None and one of this generation’s sharpest comedic voices At some point, every one of us embarks on a journey to find love. We meet people, date, get into and out of relationships, all with the hope of finding someone with whom we share a deep connection. This seems standard now, but it’s wildly different from what people did even just decades ago. Single people today have more romantic options than at any point in human history. With technology, our abilities to connect with and sort through these options are staggering. So why are so many people frustrated? Some of our problems are unique to our time. “Why did this guy just text me an emoji of a pizza?” “Should I go out with this girl even though she listed Combos as one of her favorite snack foods? Combos?!” “My girlfriend just got a message from some dude named Nathan. Who’s Nathan? Did he just send her a photo of his penis? Should I check just to be sure?” But the transformation of our romantic lives can’t be explained by technology alone. In a short period of time, the whole culture of finding love has changed dramatically. A few decades ago, people would find a decent person who lived in their neighborhood. Their families would meet and, after deciding neither party seemed like a murderer, they would get married and soon have a kid, all by the time they were twenty-four. Today, people marry later than ever and spend years of their lives on a quest to find the perfect person, a soul mate. For years, Aziz Ansari has been aiming his comic insight at modern romance, but for Modern Romance, the book, he decided he needed to take things to another level. He teamed up with NYU sociologist Eric Klinenberg and designed a massive research project, including hundreds of interviews and focus groups conducted everywhere from Tokyo to Buenos Aires to Wichita. They analyzed behavioral data and surveys and created their own online research forum on Reddit, which drew thousands of messages. They enlisted the world’s leading social scientists, including Andrew Cherlin, Eli Finkel, Helen Fisher, Sheena Iyengar, Barry Schwartz, Sherry Turkle, and Robb Willer. The result is unlike any social science or humor book we’ve seen before. In Modern Romance, Ansari combines his irreverent humor with cutting-edge social science to give us an unforgettable tour of our new romantic world.
Author: Douglas Alan Weiss Publisher: ISBN: 9781633934344 Category : Family & Relationships Languages : en Pages : 156
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Why are we so often attracted to people who are so obviously wrong for us? How do we find that one person we are destined to love and be loved by for the rest of our lives? Can the Internet really help? Answers to these and many other questions you may have asked yourself at one time or another are the subject of Douglas Alan Weiss', Life, Love & Internet Dating. Loosely modeled on Robert Pirsig's Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, Life, Love & Internet Dating explores truths about human relationships, those we have with ourselves, with others and with that higher being we sometimes refer to as God, through the lens of Internet dating. It is at once a personal journey and a deeply nuanced investigation of life and the conditions of happiness and fulfillment men and women seek as they move though their lives.
Author: Linda Cundy Publisher: Routledge ISBN: 0429915934 Category : Psychology Languages : en Pages : 197
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This highly topical book explores the new technological environment we have created, and our adaptation to it, twenty-five years after the death of John Bowlby. In the space of just a couple of decades, the world has changed radically, and we are changing too: personal computers and smartphones mediate our lives, work, play, and love. Relationships of all kinds are now conducted through mobile phones, email, Skype and social network sites. Attachment theory is concerned with the impact of the external world on internal reality, where twenty-first century experiences encounter the powerful, primitive, and ancient instinct for attachment and survival. This book is written by psychotherapists whose practice, with individual adults and couples, is informed by attachment theory. It contains theoretical, observational, and clinical material, and will be relevant to all psychotherapists, psychoanalysts, counsellors, and psychologists interested in the profound impact of digital and communication technologies on human relationships.
Author: Laura Kipnis Publisher: Pantheon ISBN: 0593316290 Category : Psychology Languages : en Pages : 224
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In this timely, insightful, and darkly funny investigation, the acclaimed author of Against Love asks: what does living in dystopic times do to our ability to love each other and the world? COVID-19 has produced new taxonomies of love, intimacy, and vulnerability. Will its cultural afterlife be as lasting as that of HIV, which reshaped consciousness about sex and love even after AIDS itself had been beaten back by medical science? Will COVID end up making us more relationally conservative, as some think HIV did within gay culture? Will it send us fleeing into emotional silos or coupled cocoons, despite the fact that, pre-COVID, domestic coupledom had been steadily losing fans? Just as COVID revealed our nation to itself, so did it hold a mirror up to our relationships. In Love in the Time of Contagion, Laura Kipnis weaves (often hilariously) her own (ambivalent) coupled lockdown experiences together with those of others and sets them against a larger backdrop: the politics of the virus, economic disparities, changing gender relations, and the ongoing institutional crack-ups prompted by #MeToo and Black Lives Matter, mapping their effects on the everyday routines and occasional solaces of love and sex.
Author: Günther Stark Publisher: ISBN: Category : Languages : en Pages : 542
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"Love in the Times of the Internet - They who perish when they love" is the - independently readable - sixth and last part, about the immortal afterlife, of the, essentially fictive, biography of Heinrich Heine, one of the greatest and most enigmatic love poets of Germany. His worldview is shaped by modern natural science with the theory of evolution and Henri Bergson's Evolution créatrice. He experienced any sexual revolution and became a chronicler of the porn age: the invention of the condom; the pill; mini skirt and hot pants; the sex industry of vibrators and dildos. He follows the creation of the erotic film to hardcore porn in favour of enlightenment. The Rolling Stones' song 'I Can't Get No Satisfaction' becomes the schiboleth of our time. In poetry he meets Brecht, Stefan George and Hugo von Hofmannsthal. In remembrance of Goethe and Ulrike von Levetzow, he tracks the unfortunate loves of his contemporaries: James Joyce and Amalia Popper, Hemingway and Adriana Ivancich, Errol Flynn and Beverly Aadland, Marlon Brando and Tarita ... His wife Mathilde resembles now the figure of Elizabeth Kiel from Charlotte Roche's novel 'Wrecked'. His aim is the reconciliation of the eternal antagonists love and eros, the ultimate chapter in the history of love.
Author: Juan Martin Sanchez
Author: Dan Slater
Author: Juan Martin Sanchez
Author: Martina Burdet
Author: Gabriel García Márquez
Author: Francoise Barret-Ducrocq
Author: Aziz Ansari
Author: Douglas Alan Weiss
Author: Linda Cundy
Author: Laura Kipnis
Author: Günther Stark