Author: Natalie Robinson Publisher: Enlightened Publishing ISBN: Category : Self-Help Languages : en Pages : 78
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This is the intermediate level guide and the continuation from the first book: "Swinging For Couples Vol. 1: Beginner's Guide To The Swinging Lifestyle - 25 Things You Must Know Before Becoming A Swinger." In this book, we will cover the more advanced parts of swinging. Swinging is about trust, and trust is won through careful attention to rules, paying attention to boundaries, and not causing drama. It is important to understand that swinging is not about having sex with anyone you feel like having sex with. It is not about cheating on your spouse or partner. It is, as I said, primarily about trust. Swinging brought back that feeling couples had when they were first with their spouse or partner, that excitement and anticipation they felt during the first date. One aspect of swinging that most people may find hard to believe is that seeing other people interested in and desiring your partner can actually make you desire them more. There is, of course, nervousness during your first few swaps. The idea of swinging is an exciting one, but it can also be extremely nerve-wracking. Even if you have already discovered a club you and your partner want to be a part of, or a couple you and your partner are going to swing with, there is still a lot to learn about the swinging lifestyle. In this guide, you’ll learn the importance of your reputation, of hygiene and ethics to those in the swinging world, how to host the other couple at your own venue, how to swing discreetly, how to play rough but safe, and you will also get a peek at some of the different fetishes you may or may not come across during your journey. Here are some of the things you will discover in "Swinging For Couples Vol. 2:" - Importance of reputation within the swinging world... - Practicing good hygiene... - Practicing good ethics within the swinging world... (both public and private) - Hosting the other couple and being gracious guests... - Swinging discreetly – how to swing without ruining your career and social reputation... - WARNING: 3 things you should never do when it comes to swinging - Play rough but play safe – how to take it to the edge without taking it too far. - Exploring different fetishes within the world of swinging - And much more...
Author: Natalie Robinson Publisher: Enlightened Publishing ISBN: Category : Self-Help Languages : en Pages : 57
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So you think you are ready to swing? Perhaps you’ve heard about swinging from some friends, seen a reality show about swinging, or read about it online. Possibly, your significant other has been talking about it. You’ve thought about it, and it sounds interesting, fun, and sexy, but how exactly does swinging work? What are the options? Are there rules? Where do you meet other swingers? Fortunately, you have come to the right place. This introductory book will guide you through the basics of swinging for couples. Once you start exploring the idea of swinging, you’ll be surprised at who else is swinging, and how many different walks of life are involved in this activity. From older, established, professional couples to younger, less experienced couples, everyone shares in the same passion and goal of having fun and pursuing a new level of sexual satisfaction. Most people swing with class, grace, and discretion. Many would say that they experience amazing results when they bring their sexual desires and fantasies to life. This lifestyle has room for almost everyone, provided that you enter into it with respect and open-mindedness towards your fellow swingers and their sometimes odd quirks and preferences. There is a wonderful world waiting for you and your partner, which should include a happy relationship, great friends, and amazing sexual adventures, if you know the right path to take. "Swinging For Couples Vol. 1" is written for beginners. It takes you, step by step, from getting you and your partner ready for the lifestyle all the way to your first swinging experience. Here are some of the things you will learn in this book: - Self-esteem and self-confidence in a swinging relationship... - How to maintain a healthy relationship with your partner while swinging... - Keep an open-mind for a successful swinging experience... - Swinging terminology & acronyms you must know before doing anything else... - WARNING: 3 things you should never do when it comes to swinging... - Communication & rules of swinger's clubs, events, & private parties... - Where to meet other swingers... - What to do when you are at the party? How to interact with other swingers... - Secrets to have fun & maximize pleasure & excitement at swingers' parties... - And much more...
Author: Curtis R. Bergstrand Publisher: Bloomsbury Publishing USA ISBN: Category : Health & Fitness Languages : en Pages : 210
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Drawing on an extensive survey of real people and over 40 years of research, this revealing volume proposes that a nonmonogamous lifestyle may be healthier for marriages than a monogamous one. Based on an exhaustive survey into the lives of real people, Swinging in America: Love, Sex, and Marriage in the 21st Century concludes that nonmonogamous relationships such as swinging and polyamory offer a new blueprint for combining sex and love—one that may prove more in line with the way people actually live their lives in our society. Swinging in America begins with what we know about swingers and the swinging lifestyle, based on personal narratives and over 40 years of sociological research comparing swinging and non-swinging couples on factors such as personal happiness, marital satisfaction, psychological stability, and personal values. The second half of the book explores the historical rise and contemporary decline of monocentrism—the sexually monogamous marriage as the organizing principle underlying our culture—and the implications of this decline for new nonmonogamous relationships and marriages.
Author: Kaye Bellemeade Publisher: ISBN: 193242072X Category : Self-Help Languages : en Pages :
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Are you interested in couple-swapping? Sex parties? Group sex? Threesomes? Anonymous sex? Girl/Girl? Orgies? Then Swinging for Beginners: An Introduction to the Lifestyle - the Revised Edition is a book you definitely need to read. It's been said that the couple who plays together stays together and this sizzling how-to book tells everything you need to know to get started in this sexy lifestyle. This includes information on dating, what to wear, what to do at clubs and parties, single men, jealousy, threesomes, how to meet other swingers and how to deal with it all and much more. In Swinging for Beginners: An Introduction to the Lifestyle - the Revised Edition, you'll not only find out the basics, but also read about steamy real-life experiences that will give you a real taste of what to expect once you get started. So are you prepared to delve more deeply into the secret world of the swinging lifestyle? Do you think you're ready to join in on the fun? Are you ready to see just what the Swinging Lifestyle is all about? If so, this book can help you get started. C'mon. You know you're curious.
Author: Derrick Monnie Publisher: Derrick Monnie ISBN: Category : Family & Relationships Languages : en Pages : 78
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This book is a primer for couples interested in exploring "The Lifestyle" known as swinging. You'll learn great tips for throwing your own swinger parties, how to meet and attract other swingers, as well how to avoid some of the common pitfalls that happen while swinging.
Author: Georgia Fuchs Publisher: ISBN: 9780981883892 Category : Languages : en Pages :
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Curious adults interested in how others live or seeking more than a vanilla lifestyle for them, can uncover the swinging world of consensual non-monogamy. We demystify the fascinating swinger lifestyle that is discreetly enjoyed by those having more than their share of hot memorable moments. Discover this sex-positive alternative to traditional relationships with this swinger guide written by relationship expert Dr. Georgia Fuchs and her husband Will. They'll show how this exciting & discreet community of swinging couples & singles is nothing like the Hollywood myths. This swinging guide explains how to safeguard relationships, discreetly find swingers, set boundaries, while still adding in the excitement of consensual non-monogamy to your life. Realize just how to have a loving, lasting relationship that just happens to also include sexy playtime with hot new friends today! Topics Covered: What is Swinging? Who Swings? Why Swing? Jealousy or Compersion? Risks of Swinging Why Swinging Won't Fix Cheating Types of Swingers Avoiding Landmines Balancing Religion With Swinging How to Share Your Interest in Swinging Swinging Rulebook Handling Feelings How To Go Swinging? Packing Your Swinging Party Bag Safer Sex and Managing Risk Levels Etiquette AKA Polite Phucking Safeguarding Privacy Rural Swinging ED Issues & Performance Pills Ice Breaker Games Younger & Senior Swingers And much more...
Author: Natalie Robinson Publisher: Createspace Independent Publishing Platform ISBN: 9781518723803 Category : Languages : en Pages : 136
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This is the advanced level guide and the continuation from the previous two books: "Swinging For Couples Vol. 1: Beginner's Guide To The Swinging Lifestyle - 25 Things You Must Know Before Becoming A Swinger" and "Swinging For Couples Vol. 2: The Intermediate Guide To The Swinging Lifestyle - 11 Things You Must Know To Ensure A Safe, Fun, Exciting, & Adventurous Swinging Experience." First we will discuss some simple games you can play with another couple. These games are designed to help you get to know each other better while simultaneously getting everyone hot and bothered. If you are thinking about a swinging party with more than two couples, we have games for that as well! All the games are designed with fun in mind, but will escalate your evening to a sex filled adventure in no time flat. I have even included ice breakers that can be played before the sex games start. The ice breakers are also meant to point everyone in the direction of the bedroom, with "In touch" being the most pointed, especially the dark finale. Maybe the thought of having sex with multiple partners turns you on but blanks out your mind. Cannot imagine how three or four or six people could all have sex together? I've compiled a list of sexual positions that range from three to many. Have fun experimenting and finding positions of your own. For those of you who have been involved in the lifestyle and wish to start your own swingers club, or throw successful swingers parties, we will cover those topics as well. You will be happy to find that we have a list of themes as well as contests you can use for your party or event. If hosting a party or starting a club sounds like too much work, we have included ways in which you can find people to play with. There is a detailed section, which contains the commonly used acronyms, etiquette, and the dos and don'ts of putting out ads for swingers or a third. We have even included a chapter about apps for swingers if you want to find others using your iPhone or Android phone or tablet. Perhaps you want to get away from it all and still be able to play with others. If that is the case, check out the chapter on swingers' vacations to learn more about what goes on during a swingers' vacation and to find out how to book your own swingers' vacation. You will learn what to bring with you and how to behave whilst vacationing. Maybe the thought of having your very own playroom is appealing. Perhaps you are going to invite a large group of swingers to your home for an out of this world party and you want to make sure you have a playroom available. But what do you put in such a room? How is it set up? Should you have rules for the room? Should you have more than one? If that is what you are looking for, read the chapter on building a complete and comprehensive playroom for you and your guests' enjoyment. This guide will give you ideas and information on deeper and more fulfilling involvement and knowledge which will bring you and your partner closer together and can lead to a more fulfilling and exciting time with your new lifestyle friends. After reading this book you will be more than ready to go out and have fun. You will have so many games to play and theme ideas to pursue that you will find you're busier than ever before. Now go out, have fun, and play, play, play!
Author: Jackie Melfi Publisher: Lulu.com ISBN: 1483467171 Category : Family & Relationships Languages : en Pages : 109
Book Description
This Q&A is like nothing you have ever seen before. A subject that is treated as "taboo" in public discourse is laid bare in Swinger's Lifestyle. Everything you have heard and thought about swinging will be questioned as you read author Jackie Melfi's unapologetic and downright honest accounts of her swinging experiences in her reader responses. Her sincerity is refreshing and her viewpoint is straight from the heart. Melfi puts careful consideration into each reader question. Her answers, advice and responses provide her readers with new insights, and her words emanate genuine warmth and concern, which is undoubtedly why her readers trust her with their most intimate secrets, passions and fears. You will find yourself wanting to know more about the swinging lifestyle and about the author herself. Even if you are not part of the swinging community, you will find that Jackie's answers and commentary traverse all relationship models and at their core, apply to any relationship.
Author: Marisa Rudder Publisher: ISBN: 9781736183526 Category : Languages : en Pages :
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Swinging | The Guide to a Friends with Benefits Lifestyle - Marisa Rudder's sizzling new breakthrough book will guide you through the basics of swinging for couples. It explains how couples separate love and sex, and enjoy greater intimacy in the swinging lifestyle. Learn how to go beyond the limits of conventional monogamy and experience spectacular sex while maintaining an honest and happy committed relationship with your primary partner. This is one of the most important relationship books you will ever read, chock-full of great information on how to set up a modern "ethical non monogamous" relationship. Learn how communication, rules, boundaries and mutual consent while you share a better sex life with your partner.If you're curious about couple swapping? Sex parties? Hotwifing? Bi-sexual threesomes? Orgies¿ and much, much more, Swinging | The Guide to a Friends with Benefits Lifestyle is a book you definitely need to read. Learn why many couples say, "couples who play together stay together" and learn how-to get started and live happily in a sexy swinging lifestyle. You'll learn how to meet other non monogamous couples and how to deal with a "swapping" Lifestyle and keep your partner happy. Discover what to expect when you go to lifestyle clubs, events and parties, including what to wear, how to act, the rules to follow - with both your partner and other members? You'll not only find out the basics but how to deal with complex emotions once you get started. Are you ready to dive in more deeply and learn everything you need to know about the swinging lifestyle? Perhaps you've heard good things about swinging from a friend, seen a TV show about swinging, or read about it online and you think you're ready to swing? Everyday partners cheat on each other and risk losing everything they have, simply because they want to experience sex with a different partner. Learn why Swinging | The Guide to a Friends with Benefits Lifestyle is showing couples that it's possible to have sex with "other people" while maintaining a happy and committed primary relationship.
Author: Robert Adler Publisher: Createspace Independent Publishing Platform ISBN: 9781979413138 Category : Languages : en Pages : 340
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Swinging with Safety is a comprehensive guide to the history, behavioral etiquette, common stumbling blocks and lifestyle norms of the swinging subculture. Written by the co-founder of one of the most popular and far-reaching lifestyle clubs in the United States, Robert Adler records his observations and ruminations in this remarkable text. Contrary to common belief and portrayals in the media, swinging is not sexual anarchy and is, in fact, based upon respect, personal boundaries and the rule of 'No.' Only when the word 'No' is unquestionably respected can a person or couple feel comfortable saying 'Yes.' The author makes keen distinctions between the 'couple's sport' of swinging and other common alternative lifestyles such as open relationships, polyamory and threesomes. This text covers not only the evolution of modern day swinging, but also contains insights into the psychological reasons for swinging, into the protective benefits it offers to committed couples, and contains chapters going in depth into the issues of jealously, morality, fear and self-esteem. In the 1970s Robert and his wife Nancy began their exploration into non-monogamous sexual sharing in a small community in Costa Rica. Upon moving to Florida in 1981 and wanting to continue their explorations, they found countless couples who were interested in partner sharing but who lived in a dearth of information of how to navigate it. After making an offhanded joke one day that they really should teach a class in swinging, Robert and Nancy held their first seminar. And then another, and another, until it grew into a community composed entirely of committed couples looking to explore recreational sex. Each and every one of the 200+ active couples had completed the seminar and were held to a set standard of behavior, including universal respect and the rule of 'No.' These behavioral standards worked, and as the members moved away the standards spread to now form the basis of the American swingers subculture. It was Adler who first realized that in order to be self-sustaining, swingers had to move to a more matriarchal mindset rather than the patriarchal 'wife swapping' out of which the lifestyle evolved. Unfortunately Robert Adler passed away in 1993 before completing his work. To honor his memory his loving widow, Nancy, has compiled this book from his writings and presents it here now, in hopes of guiding and educating new couples on the structure and cultural norms of this alternative lifestyle. Whether you are a monogamous couple interested but unsure about swinging, an experienced swinger looking for tips on throwing your first house party, or an academic researcher interested in first-hand accounts and insights into alternative forms of sexuality, this book is the one for you.
Author: Natalie Robinson
Author: Natalie Robinson
Author: Curtis R. Bergstrand
Author: Kaye Bellemeade
Author: Derrick Monnie
Author: Georgia Fuchs
Author: Natalie Robinson
Author: Jackie Melfi
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