Author: Shawn T. Smith Publisher: ISBN: 9780990686446 Category : Dating (Social customs) Languages : en Pages : 236
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The Tactical Guide to Women delivers a solid plan for allowing the right women into your life, and keeping the wrong ones at a safe distance.
Author: Everest Media, Publisher: Everest Media LLC ISBN: 166935296X Category : Family & Relationships Languages : en Pages : 28
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Please note: This is a companion version & not the original book. Sample Book Insights: #1 The best way to avoid making a mistake is to understand what makes you tick and why you choose certain women. Without this knowledge, you are the most uncertain variable in your romantic life. #2 The task of self-mastery is to create order out of the chaos within. We are all born with insecurities and needs, and we eventually learn to deal with them. People tend to find partners who soothe their deepest insecurities. #3 Mike and Sarah were a power couple with the world at their feet. They had run a successful bookkeeping business together for three years by the time I met them. But their shop was not necessarily happy. Sarah was a humorless taskmaster prone to angry outbursts, and Mike was constantly apologizing for her anger. #4 The brain likes it when we receive random rewards, which is why people keep slot machines running. When we win, we get a rush of dopamine, and we keep going back for more. That was the case with Sarah and Mike, who became an insecurity slot machine for each other.
Author: Shawn T. Smith Publisher: Mesa Press ISBN: 9781608827893 Category : Couples Languages : en Pages : 0
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Comedian George Carlin once said, "Women are from earth. Men are from earth. Just deal with it." Though witty, this sentiment fails to recognize one of the real truths in life: that both genders are completely mystified by one another, and often have a mile-long list of complaints for the opposite sex. Yet, generally speaking, both men and women want to get along--especially if there's romance involved. A Woman's Guide to How Men Think offers a practical, humorous, yet compassionate guide for women who want to learn the secrets of the elusive male mind. With author Shawn Smith's trademark humor, you'll come to understand why men think and see the world the way they do, and how to work with men to cultivate understanding and communication in relationships, without expecting men to be creatures that they are not. This isn't a male-bashing book about how men should be more like women, but a book about how men actually are, and how women can use this understanding to get what they need from their relationships. You'll also learn why men often feel frustrated and criticized, how to deal with lack of communication in ways that don't put men on the defensive, and how being curious and compassionate (while not accepting disrespectful or abusive behavior) instead of dismissing men for their inherently male traits can lead to greater understanding between the sexes. The plain truth is that both men and women are from planet earth. But that doesn't mean we are the same. If you are looking for an insider's guide to the ever-elusive male mind, this is the book for you. The author, Shawn Smith, is a psychotherapist with a blog at ironshrink.com.
Author: Shawn Smith Publisher: New Harbinger Publications ISBN: 160882053X Category : Self-Help Languages : en Pages : 218
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Your mind is not built to make you happy; it’s built to help you survive. So far, it’s done a great job! But in the process, it may have developed some bad habits, like avoiding new experiences or scrounging around for problems where none exist. Is it any wonder that worry, bad moods, and self-critical thoughts so often get in the way of enjoying life? The User’s Guide to the Human Mind is a road map to the puzzling inner workings of the human mind, replete with exercises for overriding the mind’s natural impulses toward worry, self-criticism, and fear, and helpful tips for acting in the service of your values and emotional well-being—even when your mind has other plans. Find out how your mind tries to limit your behavior and your potential Discover how pessimism functions as your mind’s error management system Learn why you shouldn’t believe everything you think Overrule your thoughts and feelings and take charge of your mind and your life
Author: John Gottman Publisher: Rodale Books ISBN: 1623361850 Category : Family & Relationships Languages : en Pages : 224
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Results from world-renowned relationship expert John Gottman’s famous Love Lab have proven an incredible truth: Men make or break relationships. Based on 40 years of research, The Man’s Guide to Women unlocks the mystery of how to attract, satisfy, and succeed with a woman for a lifetime. For the first time ever, there is a science-based answer to the age-old question: What do women really want in a man? Dr. Gottman, author of the New York Times bestseller The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, and his wife and collaborator, clinical psychologist Julie Schwartz Gottman, PhD, have pored over the research along with bestselling coauthors Douglas Abrams and Rachel Carlton Abrams, MD. Together, they have written this definitive guide for men, providing answers on everything from how to approach a woman and build a connection with her to how to truly satisfy her in bed and know when the relationship is on the right track. The Man’s Guide to Women is a must-have playbook for how to play—and win—the game of love.
Author: Shawn T Smith Publisher: ISBN: 9780990686422 Category : Languages : en Pages : 228
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Good men are everywhere, and they are searching for terrific women. So why are they hard to find? And why do so many women make life-altering mistakes by choosing the wrong men? The answer is distressingly simple. Good men don't always know how to attract women, and women don't always recognize good men. But don't despair! The Practical Guide to Men holds time-tested wisdom for spotting good men who are searching for great relationships. You'll learn...* The three pillars of a good man. Men of character possess these basic traits.* The twelve-point man inspection. These questions will help you evaluate his relationship readiness.* Ten self-deceptions that lead to costly relationship errors. Find out how to avoid common mistakes women make when choosing men. Written by a happily married man who is also a clinical psychologist, The Practical Guide to Men is a celebration of romance, and it's the perfect guide to finding love in these complex times.
Author: Milkyway Media Publisher: Milkyway Media ISBN: Category : Health & Fitness Languages : en Pages : 28
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Please note: This is a companion version & not the original book. Book Preview: #1 The best way to avoid making a mistake is to understand what makes you tick and why you choose certain women. Without this knowledge, you are the most uncertain variable in your romantic life. #2 The task of selfmastery is to create order out of the chaos within. We are all born with insecurities and needs, and we eventually learn to deal with them. People tend to find partners who soothe their deepest insecurities. #3 Mike and Sarah were a power couple with the world at their feet. They had run a successful bookkeeping business together for three years by the time I met them. But their shop was not necessarily happy. Sarah was a humorless taskmaster prone to angry outbursts, and Mike was constantly apologizing for her anger. #4 The brain likes it when we receive random rewards, which is why people keep slot machines running. When we win, we get a rush of dopamine, and we keep going back for more. That was the case with Sarah and Mike, who became an insecurity slot machine for each other.
Author: Bill Eddy Publisher: Unhooked Books ISBN: 9781936268122 Category : Family & Relationships Languages : en Pages : 0
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Why do so many of us commit to the wrong person? Most believe that attraction and compatibility are the keys to relationship success when, in reality, these are red flags in 15-20% of the population. When it comes to love, the brain is irrational and shortsighted. We make decisions based on incomplete information, biased understanding, and strong emotion. Love truly is blind. That's why you need dating radar, it gives you a way to detect hazards you might otherwise miss by recognizing: 1. Warning signs of certain personalities that can spell love relationship danger 2. Ways that they can jam your radar (deceive you) 3. Where your own blind spots might be Attorney, mediator, and social worker Bill Eddy and relationship expert Megan Hunter use their expertise in high-conflict personalities, complicated relationships and divorce to equip readers to see through the blinding spark of new love and spot potential toxic relationships before it is too late! If hindsight is 20/20, dating radar is x-ray vision. Bill Eddy is an award-winning author and president of High Conflict Institute.Megan Hunter is a publisher, author, speaker and the founder of Unhooked Media.
Author: Jean Smith Publisher: Random House ISBN: 1473549736 Category : Family & Relationships Languages : en Pages : 213
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. How can I tell when someone is flirting with me? . How can I be a more confident flirt? . How do I avoid rejection? . Where are all the good men and women hiding? Flirtology is THE dating guide for the 21st century. In an age of swiping left and right, and hiding behind online profiles, this book shows you how to replace connectivity with connection. Flirtology debunks the myths that surround flirting in order to help you find love. It helps you to analyse what you are looking for in a potential partner, shows you how to practise your interaction skills and how to unlock your inner flirt. It will give you the confidence to speak to anyone, anywhere and get results - without every compromising who you are. It's not about games, rules and tricks - it's about presenting your real self so that you will attract the right people for you. Jean Smith is a social and cultural anthropologist who specialises in the science of flirting. For over a decade she has been helping countless clients build their confidence and find love. Her Fearless Flirting tours and Guardian Masterclasses are hugely popular and regularly sell out. In Flirtology she brings you a fun, efficient and scientifically researched guide to finding your own perfect match.
Author: Tanner Guzy Publisher: Createspace Independent Publishing Platform ISBN: 9781979138406 Category : Languages : en Pages : 150
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Power has an appearance and appearance has power. Ideally those two would line up together and the world would be full of good, masculine men who dress and look like good masculine men. But all too often, reality is something different. There are good men and strong leaders out there who dress and look like children or bums. There are awful, lazy men in the world who dress in a way that hides their vices from those around them and makes them appear better than they truly are. In an attempt to correct for these disparities, our current culture tries to rob both appearance of its power and power of its appearance - to say that the way a person dresses or looks doesn't - or at least shouldn't matter. We're given platitudes like, "don't judge a book by its cover" and there's a often a cultural rush to prove ourselves as non-judgmental as we can. But a man's appearance has been an integral part of humanity since before the dawn of civilization. As human beings we use mental shortcuts when assessing our surroundings and the people within them. It is inefficient and dangerous to treat every object, scenario, and person as a blank slate or an unknown. And, because it is our tendency to judge according to visual stimuli, we use physicality, body language, grooming, and clothing to quickly and effectively communicate who we are and how we want other people to perceive us. Some men dress to appear more physically threatening, others to convey status and power within social spheres, some attempt to fit in and not draw attention to themselves, and others will use their clothing to show their disdain for the social norms around them. Regardless of what your intentions are, your clothing says something about you. And no, this doesn't just apply to you, but to every man who has ever interacted with another human being. From the ancient shaman, to the Wall Street banker, the Pope to the gutter punk, all men use clothing and appearance to tell the world who we are. Which means it's worthwhile for you to understand how to use this tool effectively. The purpose of this book is to outline the underlying principles of how clothing affects men and masculinity. Understanding and applying those principles will take you far beyond looking like you've been dressed by an image consultant, in one of his five variations of acceptable clothing, and into the realm of being well-dressed all the time.
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