Author: Michael J. Bader
Publisher: Macmillan
ISBN: 9780312302429
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 308
Book Description
Sexual fantasies. Everyone has them, but no one knows what they mean. People are curious about and often confused by the things that arouse them, yet they are often too ashamed to reveal their most private fantasies to their partners or even their therapists. In this fascinating and provocative book, Dr. Michael J. Bader offers a groundbreaking new theory of sexual desire, one that will liberate men and women and enable them to better understand their sexual preferences. Drawing on his twenty-five years as a psychotherapist and psychoanalyst, Dr. Bader demonstrates that rather than being programmed by biology or society, sexual fantasies and preferences are really psychological antidotes to unconscious dangers. Armed with this novel theory, men and women will no longer need to feel ashamed about what arouses them or confused about what arouses others. Dr. Bader sensitively tells the stories of his patients and explains the meaning of their sexual fantasies. In terms refreshingly free of jargon, he reveals how his profound new theory can be used to decipher a wide variety of sexual fantasies and behavior, ranging from ordinary preferences about positions in bed to flamboyant scenarios worthy of the Marquis de Sade. And yet, Dr. Bader's exciting new theory transcends the realm of individual psychology. Readers will come away with a radically new understanding of such issues as sexual chemistry and boredom, cybersex, pornography, and the differences in how men and women get excited. Both erudite and accessible, Arousal: The Secret Logic of Sexual Fantasies is an important landmark in the literature of sexuality.
Arousal
Author: Michael J. Bader
Publisher: Macmillan
ISBN: 9780312302429
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 308
Book Description
Sexual fantasies. Everyone has them, but no one knows what they mean. People are curious about and often confused by the things that arouse them, yet they are often too ashamed to reveal their most private fantasies to their partners or even their therapists. In this fascinating and provocative book, Dr. Michael J. Bader offers a groundbreaking new theory of sexual desire, one that will liberate men and women and enable them to better understand their sexual preferences. Drawing on his twenty-five years as a psychotherapist and psychoanalyst, Dr. Bader demonstrates that rather than being programmed by biology or society, sexual fantasies and preferences are really psychological antidotes to unconscious dangers. Armed with this novel theory, men and women will no longer need to feel ashamed about what arouses them or confused about what arouses others. Dr. Bader sensitively tells the stories of his patients and explains the meaning of their sexual fantasies. In terms refreshingly free of jargon, he reveals how his profound new theory can be used to decipher a wide variety of sexual fantasies and behavior, ranging from ordinary preferences about positions in bed to flamboyant scenarios worthy of the Marquis de Sade. And yet, Dr. Bader's exciting new theory transcends the realm of individual psychology. Readers will come away with a radically new understanding of such issues as sexual chemistry and boredom, cybersex, pornography, and the differences in how men and women get excited. Both erudite and accessible, Arousal: The Secret Logic of Sexual Fantasies is an important landmark in the literature of sexuality.
Publisher: Macmillan
ISBN: 9780312302429
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 308
Book Description
Sexual fantasies. Everyone has them, but no one knows what they mean. People are curious about and often confused by the things that arouse them, yet they are often too ashamed to reveal their most private fantasies to their partners or even their therapists. In this fascinating and provocative book, Dr. Michael J. Bader offers a groundbreaking new theory of sexual desire, one that will liberate men and women and enable them to better understand their sexual preferences. Drawing on his twenty-five years as a psychotherapist and psychoanalyst, Dr. Bader demonstrates that rather than being programmed by biology or society, sexual fantasies and preferences are really psychological antidotes to unconscious dangers. Armed with this novel theory, men and women will no longer need to feel ashamed about what arouses them or confused about what arouses others. Dr. Bader sensitively tells the stories of his patients and explains the meaning of their sexual fantasies. In terms refreshingly free of jargon, he reveals how his profound new theory can be used to decipher a wide variety of sexual fantasies and behavior, ranging from ordinary preferences about positions in bed to flamboyant scenarios worthy of the Marquis de Sade. And yet, Dr. Bader's exciting new theory transcends the realm of individual psychology. Readers will come away with a radically new understanding of such issues as sexual chemistry and boredom, cybersex, pornography, and the differences in how men and women get excited. Both erudite and accessible, Arousal: The Secret Logic of Sexual Fantasies is an important landmark in the literature of sexuality.
52 E-mails to Transform Your Marriage
Author: Samantha Rodman
Publisher: New Harbinger Publications
ISBN: 1626254621
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 147
Book Description
Press “send” for amazing results! With 52 E-mails to Transform Your Marriage, you’ll find a year’s worth of e-mails to help you reconnect with your spouse, reignite intimacy, and keep your love alive. There’s no doubt marriage can be a challenge—we’ve all heard that half of marriages end in divorce. A common problem you may face as a couple is feeling stuck or disconnected—lonely within the marriage—as if you and your spouse were worlds apart, even as you present a united front. Attempts to discuss the problem may lead to painful arguments, and even couples therapy may prove more expensive and time-consuming than effective, putting each of you on the spot and moving so quickly that you may leave, session after session, without feeling closer. E-mail, however, can be a much less threatening way to communicate your true thoughts and feelings. Based on the author’s popular online relationship coaching sessions, each chapter of this book provides an e-mail writing assignment focused on a different topic, such as sex, intimacy, communication, trust, and the future. These weekly assignments will grant you both the time to write—which can be extremely therapeutic in itself—and read what the other has to say without the need for an immediate response. With 52 E-mails to Transform Your Marriage, you’ll discover useful tips for good communication, learn how to respond to messages with empathy and validation, and be well on your way to rediscovering and sustaining the love that brought you together in the first place.
Publisher: New Harbinger Publications
ISBN: 1626254621
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 147
Book Description
Press “send” for amazing results! With 52 E-mails to Transform Your Marriage, you’ll find a year’s worth of e-mails to help you reconnect with your spouse, reignite intimacy, and keep your love alive. There’s no doubt marriage can be a challenge—we’ve all heard that half of marriages end in divorce. A common problem you may face as a couple is feeling stuck or disconnected—lonely within the marriage—as if you and your spouse were worlds apart, even as you present a united front. Attempts to discuss the problem may lead to painful arguments, and even couples therapy may prove more expensive and time-consuming than effective, putting each of you on the spot and moving so quickly that you may leave, session after session, without feeling closer. E-mail, however, can be a much less threatening way to communicate your true thoughts and feelings. Based on the author’s popular online relationship coaching sessions, each chapter of this book provides an e-mail writing assignment focused on a different topic, such as sex, intimacy, communication, trust, and the future. These weekly assignments will grant you both the time to write—which can be extremely therapeutic in itself—and read what the other has to say without the need for an immediate response. With 52 E-mails to Transform Your Marriage, you’ll discover useful tips for good communication, learn how to respond to messages with empathy and validation, and be well on your way to rediscovering and sustaining the love that brought you together in the first place.
My Secret Garden
Author: Nancy Friday
Publisher: Rosetta Books
ISBN: 0795335393
Category : Health & Fitness
Languages : en
Pages : 399
Book Description
The #1 New York Times–bestselling author’s “groundbreaking” work on women’s sexual fantasies (Publishers Weekly). First published in 1973, My Secret Garden ignited a firestorm of reactions across the nation—from outrage to enthusiastic support. Collected from detailed personal interviews with hundreds of women from diverse backgrounds, this book presents a bracingly honest account of women’s inner sexual fantasy lives. In its time, this book shattered taboos and opened up a conversation about the landscape of feminine desire in a way that was unprecedented. Today, My Secret Garden remains one of the most iconic works of feminist literature of our time—and is still relevant to millions of women throughout the world. “The author whose books about gender politics helped redefine American women’s sexuality.” —The New York Times
Publisher: Rosetta Books
ISBN: 0795335393
Category : Health & Fitness
Languages : en
Pages : 399
Book Description
The #1 New York Times–bestselling author’s “groundbreaking” work on women’s sexual fantasies (Publishers Weekly). First published in 1973, My Secret Garden ignited a firestorm of reactions across the nation—from outrage to enthusiastic support. Collected from detailed personal interviews with hundreds of women from diverse backgrounds, this book presents a bracingly honest account of women’s inner sexual fantasy lives. In its time, this book shattered taboos and opened up a conversation about the landscape of feminine desire in a way that was unprecedented. Today, My Secret Garden remains one of the most iconic works of feminist literature of our time—and is still relevant to millions of women throughout the world. “The author whose books about gender politics helped redefine American women’s sexuality.” —The New York Times
The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy
Author: Violet Blue
Publisher: Cleis Press
ISBN: 1573446378
Category : Health & Fitness
Languages : en
Pages : 265
Book Description
Turn your favorite sexual fantasies into reality, safely and successfully…The complete guide for everyone—women and men, singles and couples! Join the legions of couples and singles who are making their hottest sexual fantasies come true. Whether you’re looking for an endless supply of fantasy ideas or expert advice for a playful, imaginative sex life that turns you both on, this charming and information-packed book will tell you exactly what you need to know: * Learn your lover’s secret fantasies * Role-play: hot, dramatic sex without feeling silly * Comprehensive lists of the most popular fantasies and fetishes—complete with suggestions for props, toys, and costumes (and where to buy them) * Expert help for deciding just how far to take your fantasies * How to have a threesome—without jealousy * Sex parties and swinging * How to have sex in public * Create thrilling S/M scenarios * Racy sex games for lovers * How to strip, lap dance, talk dirty * Make your own porn and erotic photographs * PLUS…hot new stories by best-selling erotica author Alison Tyler
Publisher: Cleis Press
ISBN: 1573446378
Category : Health & Fitness
Languages : en
Pages : 265
Book Description
Turn your favorite sexual fantasies into reality, safely and successfully…The complete guide for everyone—women and men, singles and couples! Join the legions of couples and singles who are making their hottest sexual fantasies come true. Whether you’re looking for an endless supply of fantasy ideas or expert advice for a playful, imaginative sex life that turns you both on, this charming and information-packed book will tell you exactly what you need to know: * Learn your lover’s secret fantasies * Role-play: hot, dramatic sex without feeling silly * Comprehensive lists of the most popular fantasies and fetishes—complete with suggestions for props, toys, and costumes (and where to buy them) * Expert help for deciding just how far to take your fantasies * How to have a threesome—without jealousy * Sex parties and swinging * How to have sex in public * Create thrilling S/M scenarios * Racy sex games for lovers * How to strip, lap dance, talk dirty * Make your own porn and erotic photographs * PLUS…hot new stories by best-selling erotica author Alison Tyler
Is My Husband Gay, Straight, or Bi?
Author: Joe Kort
Publisher: Rowman & Littlefield
ISBN: 144222326X
Category : Psychology
Languages : en
Pages : 241
Book Description
Jennifer can’t believe it. Just married and pregnant, she discovers that her husband has been meeting Brad for sex. When confronted, Tom doesn’t deny it, but he insists it’s just “a thing” and he isn’t gay. Elsewhere, John’s wife, Karen, discovers that her husband likes to watch gay porn. John doesn’t understand his wife’s reaction. Why does she care what he watches if he’s not unfaithful? In couple’s therapy, Karen and Jennifer raise the same questions: Does this mean my husband is gay? Can my marriage survive? These and other stories illustrate the difficulties inherent when a wife or girlfriend finds out her man has had or wants to have sexual contact with other men. But many times, the man is not gay or even bisexual. Of course, some men with gay sexual interests are gay men in a process of self-discovery; they are “coming out.” These desires may only reflect a different side of a man’s sexuality or some response to childhood trauma or experiences they have not fully processed. Here Joe Kort and Alexander P. Morgan make the distinction between gay men and “straight men with gay interests” clearer to women who want to know how they can overcome these revelations. The authors explain the many reasons why straight men may be drawn to gay sex; how to tell whether a man is gay, straight, or bisexual; and what the various options are for these couples, who can often go on to have very fulfilling marriages. Is My Husband Gay, Straight or Bi? is intended to help couples understand how male sexuality can express itself in ways that may be difficult to understand. Many marriages have been hurriedly terminated when couples (and their therapists) have lacked the information they needed to understand their current situations. This book provides the clarity, describes the choices, and (in many cases) offers hope for relationships and marriages that have been brushed off as doomed.
Publisher: Rowman & Littlefield
ISBN: 144222326X
Category : Psychology
Languages : en
Pages : 241
Book Description
Jennifer can’t believe it. Just married and pregnant, she discovers that her husband has been meeting Brad for sex. When confronted, Tom doesn’t deny it, but he insists it’s just “a thing” and he isn’t gay. Elsewhere, John’s wife, Karen, discovers that her husband likes to watch gay porn. John doesn’t understand his wife’s reaction. Why does she care what he watches if he’s not unfaithful? In couple’s therapy, Karen and Jennifer raise the same questions: Does this mean my husband is gay? Can my marriage survive? These and other stories illustrate the difficulties inherent when a wife or girlfriend finds out her man has had or wants to have sexual contact with other men. But many times, the man is not gay or even bisexual. Of course, some men with gay sexual interests are gay men in a process of self-discovery; they are “coming out.” These desires may only reflect a different side of a man’s sexuality or some response to childhood trauma or experiences they have not fully processed. Here Joe Kort and Alexander P. Morgan make the distinction between gay men and “straight men with gay interests” clearer to women who want to know how they can overcome these revelations. The authors explain the many reasons why straight men may be drawn to gay sex; how to tell whether a man is gay, straight, or bisexual; and what the various options are for these couples, who can often go on to have very fulfilling marriages. Is My Husband Gay, Straight or Bi? is intended to help couples understand how male sexuality can express itself in ways that may be difficult to understand. Many marriages have been hurriedly terminated when couples (and their therapists) have lacked the information they needed to understand their current situations. This book provides the clarity, describes the choices, and (in many cases) offers hope for relationships and marriages that have been brushed off as doomed.
Sex Fantasies for Couples
Author: Jessica Ryan
Publisher:
ISBN: 9781654503499
Category :
Languages : en
Pages : 326
Book Description
Would you like to rediscover the powerful secrets of Kama Sutra sex positions and Tantric Sex, the ancient arts of love, to take your bedroom pleasure to the next level?Would you like to broaden the horizons of sexuality, unlocking your critical points of Eros and give your partner an unforgettable sexual experience?Then keep reading.Maybe you think that a sex relationship, after some time, stops being interesting and crazy, especially if always practiced with the same person. Maybe you believe that in order to get satisfying sex it's necessary to try strange role-playing games or acrobatic sex positions for couples.In Indian culture, sex is a form of divine union that has nothing to do with the idea that has spread to the western world.If you didn't know, your erotic energy can be used to explore body parts that are still unknown, improve sexual connection with your partner and open yourself to a deeper understanding of love. Kamasutra original was written around the 2nd century by Vatsyayana, it is an ancient Indian text that studies human sexual behavior and aims to improve love, desire, ecstasy, excitement and sensuality.Tantric sex is a bit different, it's a love practice, for men and women, born in India around 400 BC. and its purpose was self-knowledge and self-maturity. It allows body and mind to free themselves and to experience intense, deep, truly ecstatic sensations.With this complete Box Set you'll get 2 Books in 1: Kama Sutra for BeginnersTantric Sex PositionsYou'll learn: How to create an unforgettable experience of intimacy which is full of bliss, pleasure and nurturing for both partnersHow to restore body harmony thanks to excitement and relaxation of the sensesChakras healing and balancing, how to develop greater awareness thanks to desires and emotions controlThe hottest erogenous zones and how to stimulate them effectively How to give your partner a mind-blowing tantric sex massage, Lingam or Yoni using a tantric massage oilMaster the Art of kissing, oral sex, and all the best Kama Sutra and Tantric sex positions for couplesHow to get a stronger erection and last much longer in bedThe best aphrodisiac foods, herbs and spices that have the most relevant role on your sexual health...and much more!Even if you are a beginners or you've never tried before, you'll be able to unlock the erotic intelligence and you'll learn the ability to igniting sexual desire and establish a strong emotional connection with your partner. If you want to become a better lover and want more satisfaction, free yourself from usual sexual act routines. The possibilities to achieve maximum pleasure and the number of erotic situations will multiply exponentially thanks to ancient Indian practices.Building day after day your erotic power, you'll be on the way for a completely rich and exciting sex life.Would you like to know more?Scroll up, click the "Buy Now" button and start practicing the ancient arts of love in your daily lif
Publisher:
ISBN: 9781654503499
Category :
Languages : en
Pages : 326
Book Description
Would you like to rediscover the powerful secrets of Kama Sutra sex positions and Tantric Sex, the ancient arts of love, to take your bedroom pleasure to the next level?Would you like to broaden the horizons of sexuality, unlocking your critical points of Eros and give your partner an unforgettable sexual experience?Then keep reading.Maybe you think that a sex relationship, after some time, stops being interesting and crazy, especially if always practiced with the same person. Maybe you believe that in order to get satisfying sex it's necessary to try strange role-playing games or acrobatic sex positions for couples.In Indian culture, sex is a form of divine union that has nothing to do with the idea that has spread to the western world.If you didn't know, your erotic energy can be used to explore body parts that are still unknown, improve sexual connection with your partner and open yourself to a deeper understanding of love. Kamasutra original was written around the 2nd century by Vatsyayana, it is an ancient Indian text that studies human sexual behavior and aims to improve love, desire, ecstasy, excitement and sensuality.Tantric sex is a bit different, it's a love practice, for men and women, born in India around 400 BC. and its purpose was self-knowledge and self-maturity. It allows body and mind to free themselves and to experience intense, deep, truly ecstatic sensations.With this complete Box Set you'll get 2 Books in 1: Kama Sutra for BeginnersTantric Sex PositionsYou'll learn: How to create an unforgettable experience of intimacy which is full of bliss, pleasure and nurturing for both partnersHow to restore body harmony thanks to excitement and relaxation of the sensesChakras healing and balancing, how to develop greater awareness thanks to desires and emotions controlThe hottest erogenous zones and how to stimulate them effectively How to give your partner a mind-blowing tantric sex massage, Lingam or Yoni using a tantric massage oilMaster the Art of kissing, oral sex, and all the best Kama Sutra and Tantric sex positions for couplesHow to get a stronger erection and last much longer in bedThe best aphrodisiac foods, herbs and spices that have the most relevant role on your sexual health...and much more!Even if you are a beginners or you've never tried before, you'll be able to unlock the erotic intelligence and you'll learn the ability to igniting sexual desire and establish a strong emotional connection with your partner. If you want to become a better lover and want more satisfaction, free yourself from usual sexual act routines. The possibilities to achieve maximum pleasure and the number of erotic situations will multiply exponentially thanks to ancient Indian practices.Building day after day your erotic power, you'll be on the way for a completely rich and exciting sex life.Would you like to know more?Scroll up, click the "Buy Now" button and start practicing the ancient arts of love in your daily lif
Let's Talk About... Sexual Fantasies and Desires
Author: J. R. James
Publisher: Beyond the Sheets
ISBN: 9781796993196
Category : Health & Fitness
Languages : en
Pages : 118
Book Description
Are you ready to turn up the heat and sizzle in your sex life? Whether you're stuck in stale sexual patterns and want to explore fantasies with your partner, or you're in a new relationship and eager to learn your lover's desires, this book of sexy questions and conversation starters will spark sultry discussions between you and that special someone. Explore what turns you both on and inspire new sexual adventures both in and out of the bedroom. Whether a hetero or same-sex couple, newly dating or married for a decade, there's something here for everyone. Ignite your passion and crank up the erotic energy as you push each other's boundaries and discover secret desires while asking and discussing these sexy questions.
Publisher: Beyond the Sheets
ISBN: 9781796993196
Category : Health & Fitness
Languages : en
Pages : 118
Book Description
Are you ready to turn up the heat and sizzle in your sex life? Whether you're stuck in stale sexual patterns and want to explore fantasies with your partner, or you're in a new relationship and eager to learn your lover's desires, this book of sexy questions and conversation starters will spark sultry discussions between you and that special someone. Explore what turns you both on and inspire new sexual adventures both in and out of the bedroom. Whether a hetero or same-sex couple, newly dating or married for a decade, there's something here for everyone. Ignite your passion and crank up the erotic energy as you push each other's boundaries and discover secret desires while asking and discussing these sexy questions.
Fantasy Sex: Reference to Go
Author: Don MacLeod
Publisher: Chronicle Books
ISBN: 0811878716
Category : Self-Help
Languages : en
Pages : 108
Book Description
From wild bondage romps to indulgent sex toy playtime, the 50 erotic role-plays in this ebook are an ideal way for couples to bring their wildest fantasies to life. Playfully illustrated, with color-coded pages geared toward "for him" fantasies, "for her" fantasies, and "couples" fantasies, each one features an entire sexy scenario to act out, as well as a mind-blowing sex tip designed to ignite passions and inspire countless hours of heavy breathing.
Publisher: Chronicle Books
ISBN: 0811878716
Category : Self-Help
Languages : en
Pages : 108
Book Description
From wild bondage romps to indulgent sex toy playtime, the 50 erotic role-plays in this ebook are an ideal way for couples to bring their wildest fantasies to life. Playfully illustrated, with color-coded pages geared toward "for him" fantasies, "for her" fantasies, and "couples" fantasies, each one features an entire sexy scenario to act out, as well as a mind-blowing sex tip designed to ignite passions and inspire countless hours of heavy breathing.
Satisfaction
Author: Karrine Steffans
Publisher:
ISBN: 9781609418892
Category : Sexual excitement
Languages : en
Pages : 161
Book Description
Encourages couples to make fantasies and role-playing a regular part of their sex lives and features chapters on domination, paid escorts, and swinging.
Publisher:
ISBN: 9781609418892
Category : Sexual excitement
Languages : en
Pages : 161
Book Description
Encourages couples to make fantasies and role-playing a regular part of their sex lives and features chapters on domination, paid escorts, and swinging.
HIS SECRET LIFE
Author: Bob Berkowitz
Publisher: Simon & Schuster
ISBN: 9781416583448
Category : Health & Fitness
Languages : en
Pages : 0
Book Description
Shocking, fun, and illuminating all at once, this book dares to break the silence as men across the nation share their uncensored fantasies and innermost wants without reservation. Challenging myths about men and sexuality, over seventy fantasies from over 500 men provide reassurance to men that they are not alone -- and offer unique insight to women as to what really makes men tick!
Publisher: Simon & Schuster
ISBN: 9781416583448
Category : Health & Fitness
Languages : en
Pages : 0
Book Description
Shocking, fun, and illuminating all at once, this book dares to break the silence as men across the nation share their uncensored fantasies and innermost wants without reservation. Challenging myths about men and sexuality, over seventy fantasies from over 500 men provide reassurance to men that they are not alone -- and offer unique insight to women as to what really makes men tick!