Author: Christopher R. Agnew
Publisher: Cambridge University Press
ISBN: 1107192617
Category : Psychology
Languages : en
Pages : 295
Book Description
An outline of how power, an inherent feature of social interactions, operates and affects close relationships.
Power in Close Relationships
Author: Christopher R. Agnew
Publisher: Cambridge University Press
ISBN: 1107192617
Category : Psychology
Languages : en
Pages : 295
Book Description
An outline of how power, an inherent feature of social interactions, operates and affects close relationships.
Publisher: Cambridge University Press
ISBN: 1107192617
Category : Psychology
Languages : en
Pages : 295
Book Description
An outline of how power, an inherent feature of social interactions, operates and affects close relationships.
Couples, Gender, and Power
Author: Carmen Knudson-Martin, PhD
Publisher: Springer Publishing Company
ISBN: 0826117562
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 398
Book Description
"[A] comprehensive, critical, empirical, and practical compilation of investigations about how diverse couples are trying to implement change and pursue equality in their relationships." -Katherine R. Allen, PhD Virginia Polytechnic Institute & State University "[A] true gift to couple researchÖ.The studies reported in this marvelously disciplined collection hold living implications for couples and their therapists." -Evan Imber-Black Director, Center for Families and Health, Ackerman Institute for the Family While numerous couples strive for equality in their relationships, many are unaware of the insidious ways in which gender and power still affect them-from their career choices to communication patterns, child-rearing, housework, and more. Written for mental health professionals and others interested in contemporary couple relationships, this research-based book shows how couples are able to move beyond the dangers of gendered inequality and the legacy of hidden male power. The book analyzes the relationships of couples from various racial, ethnic, and socioeconomic backgrounds. The contributors present innovative clinical interventions, and suggest strategies therapists can use to help couples transform their relationships from being gender-based to equality-based. Explores these key issues: The risks of being in a relationship ruled by "gender legacy" behavior The differences between couples who get caught in gender legacy patterns and those who do not Gender-based patterns across the life cycle, including newly formed couples; early marriage; child-rearing; mothering and fathering Gendered power in couples dealing with illness; ethnic and racial differences; immigration and displacement issues
Publisher: Springer Publishing Company
ISBN: 0826117562
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 398
Book Description
"[A] comprehensive, critical, empirical, and practical compilation of investigations about how diverse couples are trying to implement change and pursue equality in their relationships." -Katherine R. Allen, PhD Virginia Polytechnic Institute & State University "[A] true gift to couple researchÖ.The studies reported in this marvelously disciplined collection hold living implications for couples and their therapists." -Evan Imber-Black Director, Center for Families and Health, Ackerman Institute for the Family While numerous couples strive for equality in their relationships, many are unaware of the insidious ways in which gender and power still affect them-from their career choices to communication patterns, child-rearing, housework, and more. Written for mental health professionals and others interested in contemporary couple relationships, this research-based book shows how couples are able to move beyond the dangers of gendered inequality and the legacy of hidden male power. The book analyzes the relationships of couples from various racial, ethnic, and socioeconomic backgrounds. The contributors present innovative clinical interventions, and suggest strategies therapists can use to help couples transform their relationships from being gender-based to equality-based. Explores these key issues: The risks of being in a relationship ruled by "gender legacy" behavior The differences between couples who get caught in gender legacy patterns and those who do not Gender-based patterns across the life cycle, including newly formed couples; early marriage; child-rearing; mothering and fathering Gendered power in couples dealing with illness; ethnic and racial differences; immigration and displacement issues
Coming Home to Passion
Author: Ruth Cohn
Publisher: Praeger
ISBN: 0313392129
Category : Psychology
Languages : en
Pages : 0
Book Description
This book offers a detailed road map for overcoming sexual and relationship impasses originating from painful childhood experiences. Large numbers of adults with histories of childhood trauma and neglect suffer persistent relationship and sexual difficulties. Unfortunately, most have failed to receive adequate help with emerging from these deep and complex problems. Coming Home to Passion: Restoring Loving Sexuality in Couples with Histories of Childhood Trauma and Neglect explores the enduring impacts—physiological, psychological, and behavioral—of childhood trauma and neglect. Author Ruth Cohn, drawing on 25 years of experience working with trauma survivors and their partners and families, lays out a practical and actionable course for recovery in clear, accessible language. This book provides direction and hope to those with trauma backgrounds while also serving as a unique resource for professional readers. Integrating in-depth information on attachment and relationship, trauma and neglect, and sexuality, Cohn details a practical, hands-on treatment approach for revitalizing love, health, and passion.
Publisher: Praeger
ISBN: 0313392129
Category : Psychology
Languages : en
Pages : 0
Book Description
This book offers a detailed road map for overcoming sexual and relationship impasses originating from painful childhood experiences. Large numbers of adults with histories of childhood trauma and neglect suffer persistent relationship and sexual difficulties. Unfortunately, most have failed to receive adequate help with emerging from these deep and complex problems. Coming Home to Passion: Restoring Loving Sexuality in Couples with Histories of Childhood Trauma and Neglect explores the enduring impacts—physiological, psychological, and behavioral—of childhood trauma and neglect. Author Ruth Cohn, drawing on 25 years of experience working with trauma survivors and their partners and families, lays out a practical and actionable course for recovery in clear, accessible language. This book provides direction and hope to those with trauma backgrounds while also serving as a unique resource for professional readers. Integrating in-depth information on attachment and relationship, trauma and neglect, and sexuality, Cohn details a practical, hands-on treatment approach for revitalizing love, health, and passion.
Sex Purpose Love
Author: Martin Ucik
Publisher:
ISBN:
Category :
Languages : en
Pages : 830
Book Description
Many scientific studies and spiritual teachings suggest that being in a healthy lifelong love relationship, raising conscious children, and living on purpose are fundamental both for our own long-term well-being as well as for that of future generations, so that we and they can flourish in all respects materially, physically, sexually, mentally, psychologically, and spiritually.Yet in today s modern and postmodern societies, an increasing number of people are not in such relationships, don t have children, and pursue an individualistic hedonistic lifestyle. Sadly, this individualism has been contributing to the ongoing socioeconomic and environmental problems that humanity is creating, rather than being part of their solution.The sexual selection process has gone completely out of whack, more people live alone, most couples procreate way below sustainable rates. As a consequence, we may become the next endangered species if we don t change our way of relating with each other and the world. What happened? Many people moved from we to me, or loving themselves more than others, lost touch with what their life s purpose is beyond enjoying life to the fullest, and didn t acquire the relationship skills to master the complexities of love in the twenty-first century.While our personal relationships and global challenges are constantly increasing in complexity, more people are looking for easy answers to address these problems. This simplistic approach is obviously not working.On the other hand, most of the complex meta-models that are offered to solve the wicked problems that humanity is facing are rarely effective either, as they require a Ph.D.-level grasp of philosophical and scientific subtleties just to be understood. Ironically, these complex perspectives routinely overlook the basic fact that integrating the fundamental human dimensions of sex, purpose, love, and sustainable procreation is an essential prerequisite for creating the eudaimonic world that the creators of these models envision.It is the purpose of this book to remedy these two problems by, on the one hand, providing a practical road map or model (the Integral Love Relationship model) that is simple enough to be fully grasped and put into action by singles and couples of all walks of life and educational levels, and on the other, by presenting a vision that is comprehensive enough to effectively address the relational and global challenges that humanity is facing in the twenty-first century.Without such a model, we cannot even see what kind of love relationships are possible and necessary for our own well-being, and for the creation of a peaceful and sustainable world in which current and future generations can flourish.My intention is to inspire singles and couples to realize their full healing and growth potentials to co-create the kind of love relationships that are not only personally satisfying, but that also radiate their love outward in growing concentric rings to embrace all of humanity.In the four parts of this book, you find a practical application of Ken Wilber s acclaimed Integral theory of human growth and potentials to (1) co-creating a fulfilling sexual relationship, (2) sharing your deepest purpose with your partner, (3) deeply loving your partner and what is uniquely co-created between the two of you at all levels of your being, and (4) understanding why co-creation and procreation in Integral love relationships matter in the grand scheme of things. Or, in short, it is a book about sex, purpose, love, and creating a better world.
Publisher:
ISBN:
Category :
Languages : en
Pages : 830
Book Description
Many scientific studies and spiritual teachings suggest that being in a healthy lifelong love relationship, raising conscious children, and living on purpose are fundamental both for our own long-term well-being as well as for that of future generations, so that we and they can flourish in all respects materially, physically, sexually, mentally, psychologically, and spiritually.Yet in today s modern and postmodern societies, an increasing number of people are not in such relationships, don t have children, and pursue an individualistic hedonistic lifestyle. Sadly, this individualism has been contributing to the ongoing socioeconomic and environmental problems that humanity is creating, rather than being part of their solution.The sexual selection process has gone completely out of whack, more people live alone, most couples procreate way below sustainable rates. As a consequence, we may become the next endangered species if we don t change our way of relating with each other and the world. What happened? Many people moved from we to me, or loving themselves more than others, lost touch with what their life s purpose is beyond enjoying life to the fullest, and didn t acquire the relationship skills to master the complexities of love in the twenty-first century.While our personal relationships and global challenges are constantly increasing in complexity, more people are looking for easy answers to address these problems. This simplistic approach is obviously not working.On the other hand, most of the complex meta-models that are offered to solve the wicked problems that humanity is facing are rarely effective either, as they require a Ph.D.-level grasp of philosophical and scientific subtleties just to be understood. Ironically, these complex perspectives routinely overlook the basic fact that integrating the fundamental human dimensions of sex, purpose, love, and sustainable procreation is an essential prerequisite for creating the eudaimonic world that the creators of these models envision.It is the purpose of this book to remedy these two problems by, on the one hand, providing a practical road map or model (the Integral Love Relationship model) that is simple enough to be fully grasped and put into action by singles and couples of all walks of life and educational levels, and on the other, by presenting a vision that is comprehensive enough to effectively address the relational and global challenges that humanity is facing in the twenty-first century.Without such a model, we cannot even see what kind of love relationships are possible and necessary for our own well-being, and for the creation of a peaceful and sustainable world in which current and future generations can flourish.My intention is to inspire singles and couples to realize their full healing and growth potentials to co-create the kind of love relationships that are not only personally satisfying, but that also radiate their love outward in growing concentric rings to embrace all of humanity.In the four parts of this book, you find a practical application of Ken Wilber s acclaimed Integral theory of human growth and potentials to (1) co-creating a fulfilling sexual relationship, (2) sharing your deepest purpose with your partner, (3) deeply loving your partner and what is uniquely co-created between the two of you at all levels of your being, and (4) understanding why co-creation and procreation in Integral love relationships matter in the grand scheme of things. Or, in short, it is a book about sex, purpose, love, and creating a better world.
Integral Relationships: A Manual for Men
Author: Martin Ucik
Publisher: singles2couples publishing
ISBN: 0984570306
Category : Philosophy
Languages : en
Pages : 300
Book Description
Publisher: singles2couples publishing
ISBN: 0984570306
Category : Philosophy
Languages : en
Pages : 300
Book Description
The 80/80 Marriage
Author: Nate Klemp PhD
Publisher: Penguin
ISBN: 1984880780
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 240
Book Description
NAMED ONE OF COSMOPOLITAN'S "15 BEST MARRIAGE BOOKS ALL COUPLES SHOULD READ." An accessible, transformative guide for couples seeking greater love, connection, and intimacy in our modern world Nate and Kaley Klemp were both successful in their careers, consulting for high-powered companies around the world. Their work as mindfulness and leadership experts, however, often fell to the wayside when they came home in the evening, only to end up fighting about fairness in their marriage. They believed in a model where each partner contributed equally and fairness ruled, but, in reality, they were finding that balance near impossible to achieve. From this frustration, they developed the idea of the 80/80 marriage, a new model for balancing career, family, and love. The 80/80 Marriage pushes couples beyond the limited idea of "fairness" toward a new model grounded on radical generosity and shared success, one that calls for each partner to contribute 80 percent to build the strongest possible relationship. Drawing from more than one hundred interviews with couples from all walks of life, stories from business and pop culture, scientific studies, and ancient philosophical insights, husband-and-wife team Nate and Kaley Klemp pinpoint exactly what's not working in modern marriage. Their 80/80 model of marriage provides practical, powerful solutions to transform your relationship and open up space for greater love and connection.
Publisher: Penguin
ISBN: 1984880780
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 240
Book Description
NAMED ONE OF COSMOPOLITAN'S "15 BEST MARRIAGE BOOKS ALL COUPLES SHOULD READ." An accessible, transformative guide for couples seeking greater love, connection, and intimacy in our modern world Nate and Kaley Klemp were both successful in their careers, consulting for high-powered companies around the world. Their work as mindfulness and leadership experts, however, often fell to the wayside when they came home in the evening, only to end up fighting about fairness in their marriage. They believed in a model where each partner contributed equally and fairness ruled, but, in reality, they were finding that balance near impossible to achieve. From this frustration, they developed the idea of the 80/80 marriage, a new model for balancing career, family, and love. The 80/80 Marriage pushes couples beyond the limited idea of "fairness" toward a new model grounded on radical generosity and shared success, one that calls for each partner to contribute 80 percent to build the strongest possible relationship. Drawing from more than one hundred interviews with couples from all walks of life, stories from business and pop culture, scientific studies, and ancient philosophical insights, husband-and-wife team Nate and Kaley Klemp pinpoint exactly what's not working in modern marriage. Their 80/80 model of marriage provides practical, powerful solutions to transform your relationship and open up space for greater love and connection.
Sex Positions for Couples
Author: Savage Dirty
Publisher:
ISBN:
Category :
Languages : en
Pages : 334
Book Description
Book 1: Tantric Sex Guide Are you interested in learning the ancient mysteries to experience mind-blowing Tantric Sex and Develop Your Relationship? Then Keep Reading... Living a life based on Tantric practices helps us achieve balance by integrating feminine and masculine aspects of ourselves so that we feel a sense of wholesome that presently lacks in our lives. Tantric practices help us see the divine in everything around us. Tantric practices also help you use the preserved energy to find your real purpose. Of course, it is essential to start small, begin with the simple individual and couple techniques mentioned in this book. Once you have mastered the simple ones and drawn the fantastic benefits of even these simple tantric practices, you can move on and learn more advanced techniques from reputable teachers and take your life to an entirely new level of consciousness. This book covers the following topics: Tantric sex; The bеnеfіtѕ of tantric sex; History of Tantra; The basics of tantric sex; Mind-blowing techniques of tantric sex. This is a beginner's guide to understanding the power of Tantra, what it is, and some of the essential factors associated with this. The right mindset for Tantra will change the way your body handles all of the different aspects of Tantra. You should understand that, with Tantra, you'll feel amazing. Still, it would help if you also understood that it is a powerful technique, and it can change you. Book 2: Kamasutra Sex Positions When was the last time you tried something extraordinary in bed? Do you know what your spouse desires in bed, and can they tell what turns them on? Read on to know more... This book is designed for you to read and practice. The instructions will guide you step by step in practicing the different positions. This is good news! The hope is that this book will give you the tools you need to keep your sex life fresh and continually changing, introducing you to the world of the Kama Sutra. You may have tried some of the Kama Sutra positions in the past and need help to learn more. Maybe you are new to sex and want to study different positions for beginners. Perhaps you've tried all the classics and are looking to get into something completely new and adventurous. This book covers the following topics: What is Kamasutra; The History of Kama Sutra; Benefits of the Kama Sutra: Practicing Love Making for a Healthy Body and Mind; Erogenous Zones; Kama Sutra Positions for Male Orgasm. And much more! Use every experience as a learning opportunity and allow it to guide you as you move forward. If you find that you're losing confidence using certain words and sentences, by all means, stop right there and never use them again - you've found your comfort limits. There's no need to break through them if you don't want to. Practice those dirty words in front of the mirror or build up to them slowly over time by aiming for some softer fantasy role-play first. Over time, you will begin to build a sexual repertoire that you never dreamed you'd be capable of. Your dirty talk has unlocked the door to all sorts of experiences you didn't know how to ask for, and you'll enjoy some a lot more than others. What a pleasure it would be to have sex in the same places over and over again and never make the most of your orgasm! If you haven't already, try some of the things you learned from reading this book, and I assure you that your sex life will be much better. Click to buy now!
Publisher:
ISBN:
Category :
Languages : en
Pages : 334
Book Description
Book 1: Tantric Sex Guide Are you interested in learning the ancient mysteries to experience mind-blowing Tantric Sex and Develop Your Relationship? Then Keep Reading... Living a life based on Tantric practices helps us achieve balance by integrating feminine and masculine aspects of ourselves so that we feel a sense of wholesome that presently lacks in our lives. Tantric practices help us see the divine in everything around us. Tantric practices also help you use the preserved energy to find your real purpose. Of course, it is essential to start small, begin with the simple individual and couple techniques mentioned in this book. Once you have mastered the simple ones and drawn the fantastic benefits of even these simple tantric practices, you can move on and learn more advanced techniques from reputable teachers and take your life to an entirely new level of consciousness. This book covers the following topics: Tantric sex; The bеnеfіtѕ of tantric sex; History of Tantra; The basics of tantric sex; Mind-blowing techniques of tantric sex. This is a beginner's guide to understanding the power of Tantra, what it is, and some of the essential factors associated with this. The right mindset for Tantra will change the way your body handles all of the different aspects of Tantra. You should understand that, with Tantra, you'll feel amazing. Still, it would help if you also understood that it is a powerful technique, and it can change you. Book 2: Kamasutra Sex Positions When was the last time you tried something extraordinary in bed? Do you know what your spouse desires in bed, and can they tell what turns them on? Read on to know more... This book is designed for you to read and practice. The instructions will guide you step by step in practicing the different positions. This is good news! The hope is that this book will give you the tools you need to keep your sex life fresh and continually changing, introducing you to the world of the Kama Sutra. You may have tried some of the Kama Sutra positions in the past and need help to learn more. Maybe you are new to sex and want to study different positions for beginners. Perhaps you've tried all the classics and are looking to get into something completely new and adventurous. This book covers the following topics: What is Kamasutra; The History of Kama Sutra; Benefits of the Kama Sutra: Practicing Love Making for a Healthy Body and Mind; Erogenous Zones; Kama Sutra Positions for Male Orgasm. And much more! Use every experience as a learning opportunity and allow it to guide you as you move forward. If you find that you're losing confidence using certain words and sentences, by all means, stop right there and never use them again - you've found your comfort limits. There's no need to break through them if you don't want to. Practice those dirty words in front of the mirror or build up to them slowly over time by aiming for some softer fantasy role-play first. Over time, you will begin to build a sexual repertoire that you never dreamed you'd be capable of. Your dirty talk has unlocked the door to all sorts of experiences you didn't know how to ask for, and you'll enjoy some a lot more than others. What a pleasure it would be to have sex in the same places over and over again and never make the most of your orgasm! If you haven't already, try some of the things you learned from reading this book, and I assure you that your sex life will be much better. Click to buy now!
Mating in Captivity
Author: Esther Perel
Publisher: Harper Collins
ISBN: 0060753641
Category : Psychology
Languages : en
Pages : 274
Book Description
One of the world’s most respected voices on erotic intelligence, Esther Perel offers a bold, provocative new take on intimacy and sex. Mating in Captivity invites us to explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire, and explains what it takes to bring lust home. Drawing on more than twenty years of experience as a couples therapist, Perel examines the complexities of sustaining desire. Through case studies and lively discussion, Perel demonstrates how more exciting, playful, and even poetic sex is possible in long-term relationships. Wise, witty, and as revelatory as it is straightforward, Mating in Captivity is a sensational book that will transform the way you live and love.
Publisher: Harper Collins
ISBN: 0060753641
Category : Psychology
Languages : en
Pages : 274
Book Description
One of the world’s most respected voices on erotic intelligence, Esther Perel offers a bold, provocative new take on intimacy and sex. Mating in Captivity invites us to explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire, and explains what it takes to bring lust home. Drawing on more than twenty years of experience as a couples therapist, Perel examines the complexities of sustaining desire. Through case studies and lively discussion, Perel demonstrates how more exciting, playful, and even poetic sex is possible in long-term relationships. Wise, witty, and as revelatory as it is straightforward, Mating in Captivity is a sensational book that will transform the way you live and love.
The State of Affairs
Author: Esther Perel
Publisher: HarperCollins
ISBN: 0062322605
Category : Psychology
Languages : en
Pages : 321
Book Description
"A fresh look at infidelity, broadening the focus from the havoc it wreaks within a committed relationship to consider also why people do it, what it means to them, and why breaking up is the expected response to duplicity — but not necessarily the wisest one.” — LA Review of Books From iconic couples’ therapist and bestselling author of Mating in Captivity comes a provocative and controversial look at infidelity with practical, honest, and empathetic advice for how to move beyond it. An affair: it can rob a couple of their relationship, their happiness, their very identity. And yet, this extremely common human experience is so poorly understood. What are we to make of this time-honored taboo—universally forbidden yet universally practiced? Why do people cheat—even those in happy marriages? Why does an affair hurt so much? When we say infidelity, what exactly do we mean? Do our romantic expectations of marriage set us up for betrayal? Is there such a thing as an affair-proof marriage? Is it possible to love more than one person at once? Can an affair ever help a marriage? Perel weaves real-life case stories with incisive psychological and cultural analysis in this fast-paced and compelling book. For the past ten years, Perel has traveled the globe and worked with hundreds of couples who have grappled with infidelity. Betrayal hurts, she writes, but it can be healed. An affair can even be the doorway to a new marriage—with the same person. With the right approach, couples can grow and learn from these tumultuous experiences, together or apart. Affairs, she argues, have a lot to teach us about modern relationships—what we expect, what we think we want, and what we feel entitled to. They offer a unique window into our personal and cultural attitudes about love, lust, and commitment. Through examining illicit love from multiple angles, Perel invites readers into an honest, enlightened, and entertaining exploration of modern marriage in its many variations. Fiercely intelligent, The State of Affairs provides a daring framework for understanding the intricacies of love and desire. As Perel observes, “Love is messy; infidelity more so. But it is also a window, like no other, into the crevices of the human heart.”
Publisher: HarperCollins
ISBN: 0062322605
Category : Psychology
Languages : en
Pages : 321
Book Description
"A fresh look at infidelity, broadening the focus from the havoc it wreaks within a committed relationship to consider also why people do it, what it means to them, and why breaking up is the expected response to duplicity — but not necessarily the wisest one.” — LA Review of Books From iconic couples’ therapist and bestselling author of Mating in Captivity comes a provocative and controversial look at infidelity with practical, honest, and empathetic advice for how to move beyond it. An affair: it can rob a couple of their relationship, their happiness, their very identity. And yet, this extremely common human experience is so poorly understood. What are we to make of this time-honored taboo—universally forbidden yet universally practiced? Why do people cheat—even those in happy marriages? Why does an affair hurt so much? When we say infidelity, what exactly do we mean? Do our romantic expectations of marriage set us up for betrayal? Is there such a thing as an affair-proof marriage? Is it possible to love more than one person at once? Can an affair ever help a marriage? Perel weaves real-life case stories with incisive psychological and cultural analysis in this fast-paced and compelling book. For the past ten years, Perel has traveled the globe and worked with hundreds of couples who have grappled with infidelity. Betrayal hurts, she writes, but it can be healed. An affair can even be the doorway to a new marriage—with the same person. With the right approach, couples can grow and learn from these tumultuous experiences, together or apart. Affairs, she argues, have a lot to teach us about modern relationships—what we expect, what we think we want, and what we feel entitled to. They offer a unique window into our personal and cultural attitudes about love, lust, and commitment. Through examining illicit love from multiple angles, Perel invites readers into an honest, enlightened, and entertaining exploration of modern marriage in its many variations. Fiercely intelligent, The State of Affairs provides a daring framework for understanding the intricacies of love and desire. As Perel observes, “Love is messy; infidelity more so. But it is also a window, like no other, into the crevices of the human heart.”
Tantric Sex for Busy Couples
Author: Diana Daffner
Publisher: Hunter House
ISBN: 0897935152
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 227
Book Description
Diana Daffner offers readers a modern approach to intimacy based on ancient techniques. Combining age-old tantric teachings, the peaceful exercise program of t'ai chi, and meditation, the book shows couples how to energize their relationship.
Publisher: Hunter House
ISBN: 0897935152
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 227
Book Description
Diana Daffner offers readers a modern approach to intimacy based on ancient techniques. Combining age-old tantric teachings, the peaceful exercise program of t'ai chi, and meditation, the book shows couples how to energize their relationship.